By Staff
Known for his unforgettable performances in The Five Heartbeats and The Temptations, Leon has captivated audiences for decades with his on-screen charisma and musical talent. But off screen, one of his most cherished and transformative roles is that of a father to his daughter, Noël. Their bond is built on love, honesty, and a mutual respect that has only grown stronger through the years. In this candid conversation, Leon reflects on fatherhood—the lessons he’s learned, the values he instills, and the joy that comes from loving someone unconditionally.
In what ways has becoming a father changed you as a man?
It activated my selfless gene—something I believe all parents should tap into. Being a father taught me to consider someone else before myself, to consistently prioritize what’s best for my child over my own wants or needs. That kind of thinking reshapes you, not just as a parent, but as a man.
What do you find most fulfilling about being a father?
There are countless fulfilling aspects, but if I had to choose one, it would be experiencing complete, unconditional love for another human being. Knowing there’s someone I would do anything for—even give my life—that kind of love is beyond words.
How do you show love and affection to your children, and how did you learn that language of love?
My daughter and I are extremely affectionate—even now, as she’s grown into a young woman. We never stop expressing our love for each other. That constant communication and emotional openness has always been a part of our relationship. It’s our norm.
How do you teach your children about identity, pride, and navigating the world as a Black child?
I do it by sharing my own life experiences and insights about the world she’s growing up in. I speak to her with honesty—about the struggles, the biases, and the beauty of our identity. I encourage her to think for herself, to embrace her uniqueness, and to walk through life with pride and confidence. That’s the mindset I strive to pass on.
What’s a lesson you’ve learned from your own father or father figure that you’re now passing on?
Confidence—without a doubt. My father (may he rest in peace) instilled a confidence in me that made me believe I could become anything I wanted, and look good while doing it! That belief in myself is something I knew I had to give to my daughter.
How do you approach discipline, and what values do you hope to instill in your children?
Discipline is vital and needs to be nurtured from an early age. I love to laugh and have fun with my daughter, but I’m her father first, not her friend. When it’s time to listen, it’s time—period. That kind of structure, I believe, becomes a foundation for her own sense of discipline and self-respect.
What’s one of the most joyful or funny moments you’ve had with your child or children?
Every Christmas we’ve spent together in Jamaica—from when she was in her mother’s womb to her growing into adulthood—those holidays are highlights of our lives. Just being in Yard 🇯🇲 together, making memories year after year, has brought us joy we’ll always cherish.
How do you support and uplift other Black fathers in your community?
Through real conversations, sharing our stories, and celebrating each other as active fathers. Too often, our flaws are amplified while our dedication and love are overlooked. I believe it’s crucial that we acknowledge and honor one another—because sometimes, it feels like no one else will.
What’s one thing you hope your children remember most about their childhood with you?
That she was happy. That she was loved. That through all of life’s ups and downs—through every twist and turn—I always did my best. That’s what I hope stays with her most.
If you only could say one thing to your child/children knowing that you would never see them again, what would that be?
Sorry, I can’t answer this question. I’m an actor who puts myself in the moment too realistically, and this thought saddens me to even think about.
