By Staff
William Johnson wears fatherhood like a badge of honor—one forged in love, growth, and unwavering presence. From the moment he first held his son in the hospital room, knowing instinctively that he had to become a better man for his child, his life took on deeper meaning. For William, being a father isn’t just a title—it’s a daily promise to lead, protect, and inspire. With heartfelt intention, he remains a steady presence in his sons’ lives, coaching them in sports, engaging them in meaningful conversations about identity and history, and showing them what love looks like in action. His journey as a father is grounded in authenticity, faith, and a deep commitment to raising young men who walk in purpose and pride.
Can you describe the moment you first became a father and what emotions you experienced?
The very first moment I became a father, I’ll never forget it. I didn’t want to let my son out of my sight for even a second. His mother had a C-section, and in that moment, I knew I had to protect him with everything in me. Becoming a father made me realize it was time to grow, to be a better man—not just for myself, but for my child. I was overwhelmed with joy and gratitude. What made the moment even more special was having my mother there with me. Her presence brought a full-circle feeling to the day my son entered the world.
What do you find most fulfilling about being a father?
The most fulfilling part of fatherhood is watching my sons grow into thoughtful, strong individuals. I love seeing them make good decisions and choose their friends wisely. I had the privilege of coaching them in soccer and basketball for over six years, and watching them become leaders brought me so much pride. I truly believe my presence in their lives plays a huge role in who they’re becoming. I always wanted two sons, and I promised God that if I was blessed with them, I would raise them right. I’m keeping that promise every day, doing my best to be the father they deserve.
What’s one thing you hope your children remember most about their childhood with you?
I hope my children always remember that I was there. That I never lied to them. That I always poured inspiration into their lives. I’ve never belittled them or made them feel small. I want them to carry those memories of love, support, and honesty with them for the rest of their lives.
How do you teach your children about identity, pride, and navigating the world as a Black child?
Teaching my boys about identity and Black history has been a constant in our home. Thanks to technology, I’m able to share stories, videos, and documentaries that I never had access to growing up. I use these tools to help them understand our history—not just the pain, but the power and resilience of our people. I want them to know the truth, to feel pride in who they are, and to understand the importance of overcoming the challenges we face. That time to rise—it’s now.
What’s a lesson you’ve learned from your own father or father figure that you’re now passing on?
One lesson that stuck with me from my father is about health. He used to say, “You are what you eat.” That message stayed with me. Taking care of your body, being mindful of what you consume, and practicing meditation are all things I’ve incorporated into my life and passed on to my sons. It’s not just about physical health—it’s about being mentally and spiritually aligned too.
How do you approach discipline, and what values do you hope to instill in your children?
My approach to discipline has changed over time. I thought I’d be the type to pull out the belt and lay down the law, but because I’ve always been present and honest with my boys, I haven’t had to resort to that. Sure, they’ve gotten a few pops here and there, especially when they start “smelling themselves,” but it’s more about guidance than punishment. I’ve focused on instilling values like honesty, protection of others, giving and earning respect, and standing firm in your beliefs. I want them to walk in integrity and be proud of who they are.
How do you show love and affection to your children, and how did you learn that language of love?
I show love to my sons every single day—hugs, kisses, and reminders that I love them deeply. I don’t care who’s around; they know their father loves them. That came from my mother. She was full of affection and warmth, and I’m proud to pass that same love to my sons. We spend time together doing everything from playing sports and going to the movies to cooking and cracking jokes. I truly enjoy being their dad.
Can you share a time when you felt especially proud as a father?
One of my proudest moments was being in a theatrical play with both of my sons. It was their first time acting, and they did an incredible job. Sharing the stage with them and watching them shine was unforgettable. That experience reminded me of how far we’ve come together and how powerful our bond really is.
What are some of the challenges you face as a Black father in today’s world?
One of the biggest challenges is the educational system. I don’t believe it adequately prepares children—especially young Black boys—for the real world. Living in California, there are many ethnic backgrounds represented, and I never want my sons to be confused about who they are. That’s why I constantly remind them of their worth, their roots, and their identity.
What do you find most fulfilling about being a father?
What fulfills me most these days is when my sons teach me something. They’re growing up in a different world, and I’m learning through them every day. A moment that really stood out was when my youngest son received the Student of the Month award. It hasn’t been an easy school year, so when he brought home that award with a big smile, it meant the world to both of us. Moments like that are what fatherhood is all about.
